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How To Have ELECTRIC Conversations That Excite Women
Use these 8 quick tips to spice up your conversations and make women hang on your every word
A stimulating conversation is what makes a woman excited to spend time with you.
Without this, you come across as no better than every other average guy.
Most guys start the same boring conversations when meeting a woman at a bar, or on a first date.
By following the 8 simple tips below, you can avoid this trap and blow her mind with your electric conversation skills instead.
1. Talk About Your Passions
In a lot of cultures, it’s considered rude to talk about yourself and polite to ask questions to other people.
The classic social skills book ‘How To Win Friends And Influence People’ says the best way to make someone like you is to shut up and let them talk about themselves.
However, this is rarely true in a romantic context.
If you let your date do most of the talking, she’s going to say the same stuff she’s said to dozens of other guys. So, how are you going to stand out?
How will your date be attracted to you if they have no idea who you are, what you enjoy or how you think? You’ll just come across as an unremarkable guy.
So, don’t be afraid to talk about your passions. Let her know what excites you.
Even if your hobbies and interests aren’t traditionally cool, show your enthusiasm.
Excitement is infectious and it draws people into a conversation. It’ll help a woman learn that the things you like are actually really interesting, even if she didn’t know that before.
2. Make Use Of Emotions
You can make any mundane story sound more interesting by highlighting the emotions of those involved.
